Did he marry an Alice Watson??
From the 1881 Census his birthdate is about 1858 in St Leonard's Parish, Malton. On the IGI there are a few possibilities. they are all christened in Norton by Malton, which is about 2 miles away. One is in 1856, and is an illiegitimate child, which would match with there been no Father's name given on Henry's marriage certificate. There are 2 others, one in 1861, and the other in 1863; but there are none in 1858.
Obviously Thomas died before 1716 when his widow remarried, though there is no entry in the parish register of Kilburn.
His grave stone has the following epitaft:
! In the sight of the Lord are the death of His Saints. :)
Her birth date was found on the gravestone of her Husband Richard.
Henry was a Joiner.
Richard was a Postman. He Married Leila Maria Ellis, the sister of Thomas Smith Ellis who married Richard's sister. I have not put the info in, as it has already been sorted out by another family.